When will we get numb? When something that's not reasonable is accepted by us. For most of the time, we are forced to accept sth because of the surrounding environment. The more we accept such unreasonable things, the more we will get numb to the 'Rules of Life' we've been holding for long. We start to get numb to what's right/wrong. Right becomes wrong and wrong becomes right.(white <-> black)
The interesting point is that such unresonable things may become 'reasonable' after some time, if people don't treat their feelings seriously. Such feelings are deep inside our heart, we shouldn't hide/ignore them.
Is it good to be honest to ourselves? I get more confirmed of this as time passes by. People hide their feeling because they are not very sure about it. Is it just emotional? Yes, it may be and, quite often, it is. It's exactly the reason why people try to hide themselves when they grow up. They don't wanna get hurt or have someone else get hurt.
Somtimes, we become too sensitive towards being hurt or have someone get hurt (the reason is still the fears of being hurt :P). It's the attitude of most people. 'Ah, it depends on situations. Sometimes, we should be as franky as we are like a child, but not the way in other circumstances!' This is what I believe in too! But the rule of thumb is try to be honest to ourselves all the time.
P.S. The above gets messy, become I couldn't manage what's inside my brain well at the moment... hehe :P
The interesting point is that such unresonable things may become 'reasonable' after some time, if people don't treat their feelings seriously. Such feelings are deep inside our heart, we shouldn't hide/ignore them.
Is it good to be honest to ourselves? I get more confirmed of this as time passes by. People hide their feeling because they are not very sure about it. Is it just emotional? Yes, it may be and, quite often, it is. It's exactly the reason why people try to hide themselves when they grow up. They don't wanna get hurt or have someone else get hurt.
Somtimes, we become too sensitive towards being hurt or have someone get hurt (the reason is still the fears of being hurt :P). It's the attitude of most people. 'Ah, it depends on situations. Sometimes, we should be as franky as we are like a child, but not the way in other circumstances!' This is what I believe in too! But the rule of thumb is try to be honest to ourselves all the time.
P.S. The above gets messy, become I couldn't manage what's inside my brain well at the moment... hehe :P
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